I personally have found these two questions, What do I value? and How much do I value it? more important than most any other questions I can ask on the path to PEACE, JOY, LOVE, and FREEDOM!
Do I value peace? How much do I value it?
Do I value joy? How much do I value it?
Do I value Divine/Unconditional Love? How much do I value it?
Do I value freedom? How much do I value it?
Do I value truth? How much do I value it?
Do I value friendship? How much do I value it?
Do I value marriage? How much do I value it?
Do I value fidelity? How much do I value it?
Do I value the earth? How much do I value it?
Do I value social mores? How much do I value them?
Do I value self-respect? How much do I value it?
Do I value wealth? How much do I value it?
Do I value material things? How much do I value them?
Do I value power? How much do I value it?
Do I value control? How much do I value it?
Obviously, there many of these kinds of questions to consider on the pathway to designing our lives.
Are there boundaries to consider? Are there limits? Are there parameters?
If so, what are they? Why do they exist? Are the parameters permanent?
Sometimes there can be a conflict between two things we value: Do I value fidelity or my marriage more?
One of the things I value most is truth – truth as I understand it – and truth as others understand it whether I agree with their truth or not.
My life experiences have shown me that the adage: The truth shall set you free is absolutely true.
I also believe that when I am sharing the truth (as I see it) with others, it is important to wrap my truth in kindness if it has the potential to hurt. Kindness does not sugar-coat the truth – kindness is not deceptive; it is gentle.
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how much you value it, what conflicts those values may create, and how to
approach the conflict.
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What do you value? and How much do you value it?
A Zen master lived the simplest kind of life in a little hut at the foot of a mountain. One evening a thief visited the hut only to discover there was nothing in it to steal.
Ryokan returned and caught him. “You may have come a long way to visit me,” he told the prowler, “and you should not return empty-handed. Please take my clothes as a gift.”
The thief was bewildered. He took the clothes and slunk away.
Ryokan sat naked, watching the moon. “Poor fellow,” he mused, “I wish I could give him this beautiful moon.”
Reps, Paul. Zen Flesh, Zen Bones: A Collection Of Zen And Pre-Zen Writings (p. 32). Pickle Partners Publishing. Kindle Edition.
The Moon Cannot Be Stolen – A Zen Parable
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